Define Love...

Okay, so I have been hanging out in these Forums lately,
gave a huge thot and perhaps I should ask a divine question maself..
Not sure however if this was already brought up,
tho It wuld be fun to watch others may have to say about this..
I really appreciate it if posters stay on topic and not troll/flame,
cause i wanna watch dis topic grow in many opinions shared by ALL..

Here goes da question,
2 words: Define Love...??? :confused:



(hehee, too easy to answer..?)

Love is the greatest joy and the greatest pain you will ever know.

*sigh*

Love is that feeling you get when you see a person, and you want to know that person.
When I mean know the person; you want to know what her greatest joys are, what her fears are, to hear her laugh and comfort her when she cries. You want to be there and enjoy life with her and know that everything is going to be all right.

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Originally Posted by gottibabe1

I'm not sure love has been devalue'd perse, I think its just gathered a lot of different meanings over the years. Or different ways of using it for different situations. There are many different kinds of love. But the love I think your talking about as in true love, is something thats unexplainable, its something that you just know is, by the feeling you have. This is usually only found when one person loves another, but I'm sure there are people who get this feeling with their pet or even an object in rare cases. The type of love people refer to when they say "I love this Pizza" or gets used overly, I don't think is true love, but can be considered love, because you have a deeper fondness to it rather than just liking. This goes with loving friends as well, you may not have that mushy feeling in your heart like for your husband as you do for your friend, but its a deeper connection than just liking them. In a way I guess it may appear as the word love has been devalue'd, but I think its just different peoples interpretations of what love is.

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What I said in the other thread that was made about love... doesn't totally fit with op but... you get the picture..

If this weren't the Serious OT, I would say...

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Originally Posted by Rota

I can only think of one response to the question, "What is love?"

Answer: Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me, no more.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P8tB16JrTiQ

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But since this is the serious version of OT, I'll share this song, instead. It was my wedding song, and it epitomizes my romantic abilities. (or lack thereof)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bAqdaaLVCEg

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Originally Posted by =Enchik=

Okay, so I have been hanging out in these Forums lately,
gave a huge thot and perhaps I should ask a divine question maself..
Not sure however if this was already brought up,
tho It wuld be fun to watch others may have to say about this..
I really appreciate it if posters stay on topic and not troll/flame,
cause i wanna watch dis topic grow in many opinions shared by ALL..

Here goes da question,
2 words: Define Love...??? :confused:



(hehee, too easy to answer..?)

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I define love with the word "Selflessness." The opposite is selfishness.

"Love is knowing your target, putting them in your targeting reticule, and together, achieving a singular purpose against statistically long odds."

That is love <3

the love of a mother is: worrying you wont be good enough or worrying that you will some how go wrong. watching your every word and deed so that you teach with action what you want most to instill in your child

the love of a child is: wanting to do your best to make your parents proud, coveting their praise, their attention, their time.

the love of a friend is: being there when they need you. when the times are good, when the times are bad. having a shoulder to cry on, ears to hear with, a heart to forgive from. knowing when to give advice and when to listen to them give themselves advice.

the love of a stranger is: caring weather or not meeting your needs impairs their ability to meet theirs.

the love of life is: an attitude of gratitude, being thankful not just for the obviously good things in life, like your favorite food being suddenly before you. but being thankful for the hard things in life. being in a fight and being thankful to the guy who knocks you flat. because it teaches you where the weaknesses are in your defenses.
enjoying the small things, like the wind brushing your cheek on a sunny day. or the rain pattering on your window on a stormy night. relish the "free" things in life. the beauty of the season in their turn, the call and answer of the birds, the babbling of a brook.
enjoy the simple things, like a bubble bath in a clean tub, a good book, a quiet moment to your self.

the love of self is: something i'm working on discovering.

i think that love is the power that binds the universe together. scientists dont know what electrons are made of, i think they are love. but thats just me.

(yes i left the obvious definition out. can you guess why?)

Love is an instinctual and hormonal compulsion to reproduce.

Love is everything - and nothing. It is Jerusalem, it is Walden, it is The Pearl of Steinbeck, it is Dhampir. Love is Hitler, and Petain, and Churchill, and DeGaulle. Love is god and God.

To define something is to describe its full limits. Love has few; hate is not one of them, for to hate one must know, and to know is to love. Selfishness is but self-love.

Apathy is non-love; indifference is non-love. Objects are non-love; logic is non-love; ideals are non-love. All else is love.