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I promise to lend a sympathetic ear and dispense wonderful advice for all your relationship problems.
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I promise to lend a sympathetic ear and dispense wonderful advice for all your relationship problems.
Why doesn't the girl I like understand me :dizzy: she never gets what I mean. And I am so good at explaining stuff :( /sarcasm
What if a guy punches you in the cheek but apologizes? Give him another chance?
oh my..
how do i get my bf to fall asleep so he wont nag bout my "online-life"?
He seriously envies pixels.:rofl:
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I wouldn't. It takes two people to establish an abusive relationship cycle, the person doing the beating, and the person doing the forgiving and taking back. Anyone who lays hands on their partner once is going to do it again unless they get the help they need. I would not give that person another chance because they need to know that their behavior crossed a boundary that is non-negotiable. That person needs professional help, not arbitrary forgiveness.
So mah gal pal and me were having some relationship probs. I was all like, I think we shud see other peeps. But she was like Omg no I love you soooo much. I was alright fine, but I said we should be able to sleep around until we solved this problem, and she was like alright.
So a week passes, and 8 people tell me that she slept with with, mah mind was blown. She even hooked up with mah arch nemesis, Ghost101. I was like woah hold on brah. How could you do this. And she was like, I thought it was alright to sleep around.
But it was actually a test from the beginning, ya see? To see if she was faithful
The question is, should I take her back? And if I do, should she be tested for STDs and/or pregnancy?
Ninja text noted ;)
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Communication is surprisingly difficult under normal circumstances, and when you add extra filters such as, for example, "liking" someone, the chance for mutually understandable interaction goes down. Liking someone normally results in you placing stresses on your communication style which you wouldn't normally have, for example, perhaps you are trying to be wittier, or funnier, or more charming, but the strain tells and results in a more confusing interaction. This is why people recommend "just be yourself."
The fact that you have to explain shows you are working too hard. It is paradoxical, but when we like someone but are too afraid to say it directly, we try to hint at it by exaggerating other aspects of our communication - resulting in a less clear message. If you can do this successfully, it's called flirting. Most people can't pull it off. The solution to this Gordian Knot is of course to cut it. Just tell her you like her straight up, without all the flirting and try-hardisms - "just be yourself" :D
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