Help Me, Please.

About a week ago, I met this girl. Very Japan-oriented, loves anime, Japaneses music, nice, kind, and funny. Of course, she wasn't Japanese, but she was caucasian.

Now, I like her, she likes me. Yesterday, we decided to start going out. Bad choice.

Why? After that, I decided that I wanted to get to know her better, which meant that I wanted to keep our relationship as "Friends".

Then, she went a bit... "Off". She started to become depressed. She cried, begging me to stay with her, telling me that I was her "Prince", and she was a "Princess" (For the record, she was completely sober). She continued on about other obsesive things about me, how I was all she wanted in a guy, how she wouldn't be the same without me, etc. I was creeped out.

Now, I'm struggling between the thought of breaking up, or staying in the relationship. And I've turned to you guys and gals. What's your opinion?

PS: She's a Japan fanatic. Loves the Akihabara.

Teach her how to dougie


and stay with her, it is good to have someone who cares about you

Ask people who have actual relationship experience.

Hint: Internet forums are bad places to look for this type of person.

I can give good sound advice, I am like Dr. Phil


Montros what were you thinkin?


talk to me on skype if you have it.

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Originally Posted by Nesterus

stay with her, it is good to have someone who cares about you

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Exactly what he said.

If you feel too uncomfortable around her, and your relationship goes awry, all you have to do is tell her.

It's the best thing to do...trust me on this.

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Originally Posted by Montros

About a week ago, I met this girl. Very Japan-oriented, loves anime, Japaneses music, nice, kind, and funny. Of course, she wasn't Japanese, but she was caucasian.

Now, I like her, she likes me. Yesterday, we decided to start going out. Bad choice.

Why? After that, I decided that I wanted to get to know her better, which meant that I wanted to keep our relationship as "Friends".

Then, she went a bit... "Off". She started to become depressed. She cried, begging me to stay with her, telling me that I was her "Prince", and she was a "Princess" (For the record, she was completely sober). She continued on about other obsesive things about me, how I was all she wanted in a guy, how she wouldn't be the same without me, etc. I was creeped out.

Now, I'm struggling between the thought of breaking up, or staying in the relationship. And I've turned to you guys and gals. What's your opinion?

PS: She's a Japan fanatic. Loves the Akihabara.

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You know i heard Boleslav could help you out really well with this. he has a thread on relationships.

But, since i am Dr. Phillgood i will help you out. Find someone handsomer than me yes i know that will be hard............... ok serious time.

let her down easy so your shirt isn't wet with her tears. this actually happened to someone last year at school. so theres this ugly, ugly, girl and she chases every guy she likes our with hormones it would be a crush. it was a class mate he was in 7th grade with me and she was in 8th grade. the girl chased him down untill he said yes. so what he did was say yes so she would say there going out but to his self they really were not. so you could possibly do that. however, when he got tried of her being clingy he told her he wanted to break up, she got mad, tried to slap him he ran and she still tried to slap him but the art teacher(hes a fail teacher you can brake all the rules with him) saw it and but told her to get to class because there was only a little time left to get to the next class. but yes there were some things he did before he decided to "break up" with her. one was he tried to avoid her, didn't work. two he tried to take another route to get to class but of course she was still in the hall. thats the only help i have to offer.

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Originally Posted by Knuckles

Jurnis i think we need your leadership as a mod again.

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Jurnis is a communist.

I don't know what's more freaky someone asking for relationship advice on a game's forum or the guys actually replying.

Hmm however, to the problem at hand I would go with the honest approach, then try to keep your distance.

The friends approach will only give her hope, not fair on either of you.

I really need to take my own advice sometimes. Oh well I did try and have a life once........

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Originally Posted by Nesterus

I can give good sound advice, I am like Dr. Phil


Montros what were you thinkin?


talk to me on skype if you have it.

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Bad. She follows my every move on Skype.

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Originally Posted by Jurnis

Exactly what he said.

If you feel too uncomfortable around her, and your relationship goes awry, all you have to do is tell her.

It's the best thing to do...trust me on this.

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Trust? You? On? THIS???

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Originally Posted by DoubleM

You know i heard Boleslav could help you out really well with this. he has a thread on relationships.

But, since i am Dr. Phillgood i will help you out. Find someone handsomer than me yes i know that will be hard............... ok serious time.

let her down easy so your shirt isn't wet with her tears. this actually happened to someone last year at school. so theres this ugly, ugly, girl and she chases every guy she likes our with hormones it would be a crush. it was a class mate he was in 7th grade with me and she was in 8th grade. the girl chased him down untill he said yes. so what he did was say yes so she would say there going out but to his self they really were not. so you could possibly do that. however, when he got tried of her being clingy he told her he wanted to break up, she got mad, tried to slap him he ran and she still tried to slap him but the art teacher(hes a fail teacher you can brake all the rules with him) saw it and but told her to get to class because there was only a little time left to get to the next class. but yes there were some things he did before he decided to "break up" with her. one was he tried to avoid her, didn't work. two he tried to take another route to get to class but of course she was still in the hall. thats the only help i have to offer.

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I hate your grammar. Thanks for the random set of words.

Monty, tell her to git-fo. Why should you care how she feels about you? If she gets depressed, it's her fault for thinking you were worth it.