Does This Happen To You??

Basically a Socializing Feast or famine...

like one week.. all the girls im interested will call me n' wanna get together.. all my buddies will be trying to get me to hang w/ them, etc..etc...

THEN it all stops! for 2-3 weeks.. like i couldnt even get a fat homeless kid to hang w/ me if i payed him in candy bars...

then it all starts over again..

DOES THIS OCCUR TO YOU ALL?

I keep a balance.

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Originally Posted by Ruyuk

I keep a balance.

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wats the secret?!

I have that happen. Not the fat homeless guy part though lol, if I made an effort to hang out with people it'd be easy. But as far as having people calling me and bugging me to hang out with them all at once, and then having lulls where no one does, I get that.

Also events too, they always have to be on the same day or right near each other to make it impossible to keep up with or attend them all, then for months.. nothing.

Happens to me all the time.

In my relationships too. I'll have a date with a girl, then all of sudden like 2 more girls want to go out with me. Even that long time friend just suddenly decided she wants to try something out.

Then afterwards like nobody...

*crickets chirping* and *tumbleweed blowing* by.

people tend to think alike all the time whether you realize it or not. Just be the pro-active one if you want to try to keep this from happening.

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Originally Posted by ABakker

people tend to think alike all the time whether you realize it or not. Just be the pro-active one if you want to try to keep this from happening.

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exerting effort.. is not one of my strong points..

well, the same goes for me lol.

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Originally Posted by chinothepony

Happens to me all the time.

In my relationships too. I'll have a date with a girl, then all of sudden like 2 more girls want to go out with me. Even that long time friend just suddenly decided she wants to try something out.

Then afterwards like nobody...

*crickets chirping* and *tumbleweed blowing* by.

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Yeah, I end up having all of my friends and ex's wanting to be with me it seems as soon as I'm involved with someone else. I just chock that much up to the whole "wanting what you can't have" thing.

No, what happens to me is almost every time I get in a new relationship within three months one of more of my ex girlfriends starts talking to me again. It's really weird. But it also gives me a chance to feel good about myself and tell them how happy I am without them then never speak to them again. I'm a vindictive ex.

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Originally Posted by Cyhort

No, what happens to me is almost every time I get in a new relationship within three months one of more of my ex girlfriends starts talking to me again. It's really weird. But it also gives me a chance to feel good about myself and tell them how happy I am without them then never speak to them again. I'm a vindictive ex.

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Its always good to keep in touch with the exs ;)

You never know whats going to happen next or whats around the corner....

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Originally Posted by Cyhort

No, what happens to me is almost every time I get in a new relationship within three months one of more of my ex girlfriends starts talking to me again. It's really weird. But it also gives me a chance to feel good about myself and tell them how happy I am without them then never speak to them again. I'm a vindictive ex.

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oh i know how that goes.. as soon as i start dating someone new.. all the other chicks that kickd me to the curb start calling again.. its krazy..

If you only knew my ex's... lol.

Nothing good can come out of continued contact. ^_^

yea ill be dating a chic and then 5 girls will tell me they like me. also happens to me with friends though.

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Originally Posted by drizztix

wats the secret?!

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Toilet Paper, Turned-Off phones, Invisible or Busy/Away IM status, Doctors Appointments, Excuses, etc.

just call them! if you want to hang out ask.