Love Question :D

I should probably stay away from this topic, I don't have the luck with the ladies either, yet I felt I must post something here. First in response to Els and his shoes. thats how Els is random and never connecting the dots, he must have left things off in between lol. But yeah, I say just feel it, Don't make an (player edit so no infraction I think you know what I want to go here) out of yourself. Try to follow Conrad, women really respect that (tends to take longer, but its a better relationship on the whole) And be ready for heart break. I mean it happens, but you learn from it. Anyways, I'm now going to start being random because I have trouble trying to make myself look helpful and caring. Its just how I am. MWHAHAHAH yeah so anyways Goodluck.

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Originally Posted by Conrad_Jalowski

Hmmm...treat the other individual with the utmost respect, courtesy and maintain a certain etiquette of social grace. Concern yourself with the other person's passions and interests. If the person that you like enjoys literature, write essays and poems together on the theme of ardent love.

In addition, be wary of intoxicating emotions and petty passions...strive for the love of inner beauty: of the human ideal of moderation, grace and proportion. In essence, like the individual for common goals and interests and not physical appearance solely. True beauty is in the joy instilled within you by the other person's presence...

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umm. yea we dont do that in america. but u should treat them with respect and courtesy, and remember, its a girl. dont do anything too unsanitary. we usually just get to know them then ask um somewhere, usually not alone for the 1st time, then as she gets the picture u ask her out (if u already havent) then ask her to movies or something

Awww I thought that was very sound advice abakker :)

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Originally Posted by LEGIONGOD

umm. yea we dont do that in america. but u should treat them with respect and courtesy, and remember, its a girl. dont do anything too unsanitary. we usually just get to know them then ask um somewhere, usually not alone for the 1st time, then as she gets the picture u ask her out (if u already havent) then ask her to movies or something

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hence why America has one of the highest divorce rates lol.

The best advice I can give is don't be creepy or hyperactive. Just be confident. If any of your friends are friends with any of her friends try to arrange a group hang out at an arcade or a bowling alley or something like that. And don't ask her to a movie on the first date, aside from being incredibly cliche you want to do something that will allow you to talk and get to know each other.

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Originally Posted by ABakker

hence why America has one of the highest divorce rates lol.

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also true, but us people in america are very good liars, increasing divorce rates

(my parents getting divorced atm, thats not one of the only reasons why america has high divorce rates)

well I know Americans and their problems, I do live in the heartland after all.

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Originally Posted by ABakker

well I know Americans and their problems, I do live in the heartland after all.

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oklahoma?!? u got buffaloo too?!

Rigbine and Cyhort win this one. Both of them give absolutely sound advice that will get you dates. :)

I'd add a couple other things:
Show interest in HER. Spending all your time talking about yourself in an effort to impress her is never a good idea.
Don't act desperate. Saying, "I really like you and I'd like to hang out with you again" is fine. Saying, "I could see us married by Christmas" is NOT.
Unless you know she's into the same things you are, it's probably not your wisest move to spend 2 hours dissecting Star Trek episodes or why Linux is superior to Windows.

yes yes, but america is america, we have out many problems. nothing u can do about it