If you have crush what are the things you should do?. Some tips? :).
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If you have crush what are the things you should do?. Some tips? :).
LOL..
i usually tell em "You're Pretty.. we should get together.."
then ... no matter what i do or how i got about woo'ing them.. it always backfires..
hope that helped
Awwww.. I'm not that brave man!... ahehe.. Just say you're pretty? and you should hang with that girl right?. hmm?Quote:
Originally Posted by drizztix
the secret is.. treat them like a friend..
don't listen to this guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by drizztix
go directly for their zipper, you don't even have to say anything.
If you're already friends with them, just try to get closer.
If not, which I can't really understand why you would have a crush on someone you don't know, here's what you do.
Try not to seem too obsessed with them, but at the same time, don't ignore them. Greet them once in a while, and try to make them start conversations with you, so it doesn't seem like you're obsessing over her. Basically, just eaves drop on them while they're talking, and find out what they like. Then, without her being aware that you know she's listening, some time later, say something about it with your friends and they might try to join in. Example, you find out they LOVE froggies, but they don't know you know that. So one day, while talking with some friends and your crush being near, discuss froggies with your friend. Your crush will be all, like, "ZOMG ZOMG ZOMG I LOVE FROGGIES" and you can start talking with the and try to show interest.
Was just a matter of time before these sort of topics start getting posted here.
Well today on Gazza's love doctor tips...
Dont be shy, get straight to the point with the girl and express your feelings to her.
woot i need advice too.
see im trying to get everyone here to like me, ahh well you see the problem
:D
i.e. see post #5Quote:
Originally Posted by Gazza
Tip: girls like Gum. Dont ask me why, but at least all my friends do. I dont know if its self-conscious or what, but they constantly ask for gum.
Step #1: Say you like her shoes.
Step #2: Walk away.
Girl says, "Come back, (insert name here)!"
Step #3 Walk back and say, "Yeah?"
Girl scribbles something on paper. "Here's me number."
Step #4: If you know her, and see her at school/work/et cetera, visit her the next day. Hang out for alittle.
Step #5: Get serious; call her; et cetera.
That's all for the World-Wide Motor Sports Tips.
I wouldn't give a guy my number because he likes my shoes >.<
Find out what you guys have in common, play on it, flirt a little, be happy, don't expect too much from the get go, play it cool.
Works for most people I know.
You're English. Come to America.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kittiana
We do things alittle different in hometown U.S.A.
I 2nd the motion that Kitti should visit America!Quote:
Originally Posted by Elsworth
This is why we're more sought after ;)
I've visited numerous times and have been engaged to an american...
^I personally dont like the accent, sowwy.
Neither do I :p
I apparently don't sound english though :S
Kittiana's accent is good, because she's just....GOD.
((And I didd'n ttypo. I think God had a gender change. :D))
^Goddess????
how does complimenting their shoes equate to acquiring their number??
English accents? Those are the sexiest things ever.Quote:
Originally Posted by wpack10
You're all nuts >.<
Its probably because i met this english kid in Cancn who was quite a -insert infraction worthy word here-Quote:
Originally Posted by Venged_Kitty
Yeah that must have been it.Quote:
Originally Posted by wpack10
Hmmm...treat the other individual with the utmost respect, courtesy and maintain a certain etiquette of social grace. Concern yourself with the other person's passions and interests. If the person that you like enjoys literature, write essays and poems together on the theme of ardent love.
In addition, be wary of intoxicating emotions and petty passions...strive for the love of inner beauty: of the human ideal of moderation, grace and proportion. In essence, like the individual for common goals and interests and not physical appearance solely. True beauty is in the joy instilled within you by the other person's presence...
blimey mate, i havnt got the answer either..Quote:
Originally Posted by drizztix
..........In america? Good One. If you can find 30 couple like that in all of america, i would worship you. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Conrad_Jalowski
Now theres someone who knows what they're talking about :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Conrad_Jalowski
I'ma give you rep for that
Whenever I wanted a date I just walked up to a girl, (had to at least know her name at this point as I never, well mostly, never asked out a girl I just met), I'd walk up to a girl and simply ask them out. Usually to something different, not the usual movie or club thing, and always to somewhere public and usually gave at least two date ideas and two different days/ times. This way if they wanted to go on a date they'd quickly say yes and we'd figure out the details, if they really weren't interested they would pretty much have to say so. Saves a lot of time. And honestly it works really well. I used to go on a lot of dates before I got married. Man I miss flirting(not as much as I'd miss my wife though).
Good luck, get out there, don't be shy. Oh and be a little cocky, even if its obvious you're putting some sarcasm in it. For some reason girls like confident guys, and the quickest way for showing confidence without seeming too cocky is by being cocky with a good dose of sarcasm.
I could go on and on. But I'll stop here.
Again good luck out there.
i always ask them to go fly kites..
I should probably stay away from this topic, I don't have the luck with the ladies either, yet I felt I must post something here. First in response to Els and his shoes. thats how Els is random and never connecting the dots, he must have left things off in between lol. But yeah, I say just feel it, Don't make an (player edit so no infraction I think you know what I want to go here) out of yourself. Try to follow Conrad, women really respect that (tends to take longer, but its a better relationship on the whole) And be ready for heart break. I mean it happens, but you learn from it. Anyways, I'm now going to start being random because I have trouble trying to make myself look helpful and caring. Its just how I am. MWHAHAHAH yeah so anyways Goodluck.
umm. yea we dont do that in america. but u should treat them with respect and courtesy, and remember, its a girl. dont do anything too unsanitary. we usually just get to know them then ask um somewhere, usually not alone for the 1st time, then as she gets the picture u ask her out (if u already havent) then ask her to movies or somethingQuote:
Originally Posted by Conrad_Jalowski
Awww I thought that was very sound advice abakker :)
hence why America has one of the highest divorce rates lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by LEGIONGOD
The best advice I can give is don't be creepy or hyperactive. Just be confident. If any of your friends are friends with any of her friends try to arrange a group hang out at an arcade or a bowling alley or something like that. And don't ask her to a movie on the first date, aside from being incredibly cliche you want to do something that will allow you to talk and get to know each other.
also true, but us people in america are very good liars, increasing divorce ratesQuote:
Originally Posted by ABakker
(my parents getting divorced atm, thats not one of the only reasons why america has high divorce rates)
well I know Americans and their problems, I do live in the heartland after all.
oklahoma?!? u got buffaloo too?!Quote:
Originally Posted by ABakker
Rigbine and Cyhort win this one. Both of them give absolutely sound advice that will get you dates. :)
I'd add a couple other things:
Show interest in HER. Spending all your time talking about yourself in an effort to impress her is never a good idea.
Don't act desperate. Saying, "I really like you and I'd like to hang out with you again" is fine. Saying, "I could see us married by Christmas" is NOT.
Unless you know she's into the same things you are, it's probably not your wisest move to spend 2 hours dissecting Star Trek episodes or why Linux is superior to Windows.
yes yes, but america is america, we have out many problems. nothing u can do about it