lol Cy.
anyways, Dark, I would like you to take a look at this thread here.
http://bbs.evony.com/showthread.php?p=515758#post515758
Not to brag or anything, but look at how I handled that thread there. The trick is knowing how to handle those angry people and to be willing to get insults thrown at you. Even after the situation was handled and ended for like 2 weeks, a person decided to post insulting me. Yet I just sit here taking it not caring what he calls me. I know what I did there helped the people of that server, and there problem was solved shortly after. Just don't try to defend each and every insult thrown your way. We all can see the truth, its just that you have to trust others to see the truth for themselves.
Ignoring certain things is the best policy.

