*sets three traps with shiny things in them and nonchalantly waits for Naomi*
*sets three traps with shiny things in them and nonchalantly waits for Naomi*
Anything for us that don't wear war stilts? Like war pumps? Or chocolate?
*sees shiny chocolate wrapper in my trap future...*
Special Props To Don Ezio for this!
In war, victory. In peace, vigilance. In death, sacrifice.
*puts several boxes of chocolates in 5 traps and waits for Fallbreeze*
Don't play any addicting online games, and try to go out more.
Thought this was a cool thread but no way am I going to read through 51 pages made it through 15, so what I'm about to say may or may not have been said before.
Main traits I always hear women say they want in a man.
1. Stability
2. Humor
3. Loyalty
4. A Job/Work Ethic
5. Being clean
6. Honesty
7. Confidence
8. Looks (yeah they do care although not as much as guys)
Only two things on the list are optional: Stability and A Job/Work Ethic (the latter will be tolerated but you damn sure better make up for it in the other six traits)
Now for the whole bad boy vs. good guy thing. Inexperienced girls/women look for bad boys...just trial by fire and has to be experienced I guess. That's why you always hear high school boys/young college guys saying they lost the girl they wanted to the bad boys.
There are exceptions...crazy women who like being treated like crap, not going into the reasons why but needless to say they are either dependent on it or get off on it...and yes they are out there. These women have something wrong with them probably stemming from some past experience and should be avoided unless you a. want to help them (go to a professional) or b. get off on treating women like crap.
As far as the average girl the bad boy thing gets old, they will only tolerate so much of being treated like dirt before you guessed it they go after that good guy. Yes that's right they will find you not the other way around. Girls that have been in terrible bad boy relationships and have ended it...will fall for a good guy. Also women who are mothers don't brook the bad boy bs for long, most are looking for a guy that treats their kids right as well as them.
Also it doesn't matter whether your a good guy or bad boy if you come off as being desperate your chances are next to nil...being aggressive and desperate are two very important things you need to differentiate from each other. When your desperate your sending the message that you can't get another girl so you'll settle for her...this is most likely just going to **** them off and thus send you packing. Being aggressive doesn't mean being an ass it means you express interest and your subtle but forward about it...body language, expression, dress, conversation you need confidence for this and you just play it cool.
So is there any help for bad boys...I think so. If your a bad boy and don't want to lose your girl (and you will) then all you need to do is redirect yourself. If you treat her, her kids or animals poorly turn it elsewhere. Go out to a rowdy bar...let someone pick a fight and finish it (especially if she's with you) doesn't matter if you get your ass kicked as long as you stood your ground and stood up for her...girls love that knight coming to their rescue scenario (yeah almost all women played it out as little girls). If your boss is screwing with you at work turn it on them. Do bad boy hobbies guns, cars, sports etc...she'll just see this as something that goes with your personality (but with any hobby put her first). Last thing hang in tough crowds and alpha up, earn respect in that crowd don't let anyone buck up without putting them down...like I said it doesn't matter if you get your ass kicked just fight until you either can't fight anymore or you win...never budge on this for you and your girl...two things will happen your woman will love your unbreakable spirit and the men will grow to respect you and learn they can't take a **** on you without getting hurt...respect will follow. Also don't be a bully no one respects someone that goes for the weaker individuals...if anything spot the alpha and go for his throat...unless he's a good guy bad boy then you'll just lose face as this is what you want to become...they inspire loyalty and more than likely would befriend you as an equal rather than challenge you.
The above works for good guys that want to be good bad boys...you'll just have to adjust. Best of both world's I suppose. You gain a strong bond with the girl you love as well as make worthwhile friends that will back you in a brawl or any other aspect of your life.
These tips didn't come from reading about them...I was a good guy turned bad boy. Good guy thing did squat in high school and early years of college...so I went bad and life was good I got the girls...treated them like ****, cheated, was always brutally honest, disinterested, mad as hell, fought at the drop of a hat, constantly devalued them, blamed them for everything that was wrong in the relationship and then dumped them.
That was until I found the girl I loved we were together for 10 years she put up with everything being cheated on etc..etc..until one day she found that good guy, she never looked back and when she left it hurt more than any damn thing I had ever felt before. The bad boy in me died and I came to the crashing realization that you can't get the worthwhile **** in life by being a massive ****...unless you want the crazy broads and that just isn't worth it. I lost a damn good bad girl because of my bs outlook of women.
I'm trying to find the good guy I used to be who knows when to let the bad boy out. This may cost me some women but personally if 1000 women dropped me for a straight bad boy it will be worth it for that one good girl and if that happens I'll never let her go...because gentlemen when you **** away your first true love and Lady Luck and Mistress Fate take pity on your misery and confusion and decide to do the impossible and send you one more...you just don't look back.
Last edited by RazorGunn; 06-09-2010 at 12:38 PM.
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