hmmm, well if i could change any time in my life it would be when I was 4-5 years old when I was molested, by my babysitters son he was about 35 years old I think. But thinking back there really wasnt anything I could have done to stop it. It did shape my life because I never fully trusted anyone with anything. Which forced me to mature faster as a kid. I never asked anyone for help I dealt with problems by myself and only recently I accepted what had happened. To this day I wonder what kind of a person would I have been if this never happened. My mom and my family dont know about this and I prefer to keep it that way. I talked with my closests friends about it and they have helped me overcome it and not let it define the rest of my life.