I love these lists...

-athleic build and fairly fit. At least, he should be able to play sports with me. I can't run and I don't have an athletic build, but I can sail all damn day, and sailing is a sport...
-He must have a sense of humor and be able to take my jokes I'm a funny guy, strange sense of humor though sometimes
-Be able to have conversation about something other than sports, other women, and sandwiches I hate sports other than sailing or paintball, don't see a point in talking about other women, and I'll only talk about sandwhiches if I want one.
-hat hair is always a plus (I you don't know what that is, then drop it) but pretty much anything longer than that is ick. My hair is short, buzz cut or shaved bald.
-cologne (old spice is one of my favourites) Hells yeah
-well dressed (not suits and ties well dressed, but clean clothes, nicely cut, logoed don't really matter) My clothes are clean, dunno about nicely cut, I'm not gay
-as long as he's decent to my friends and family, I'm happy I'm loveable, family always loves me
-must have a real personality. Not something fake that was bought and paid for. Yup
-must be able to listen as much as he is able to talk Better at listening than talking
-must be kind and gentle to people that are deserving of it Define deserving
-clean appearance (that includes skin, teeth, and hair) but if it's somehing that can't be helped, like a scar, persay, that's a-okay Yup and I got a couple scars, with stories for each one.
-doesn't take things too far, whether it's jokes, arguements, whatever. Level headedness in other words I'm level headed, but I always take things to far...
-isn't constantly flirting with other girls, that ticks me off My gf says I'm always flirting with other girls, I don't mean to do it, and I don't realize I'm doing it, its a subconcious thing...