Quote Originally Posted by SickbyDefinition View Post
What if a guy punches you in the cheek but apologizes? Give him another chance?
Not stepping on Bole's toes, but I wanted to comment on this one: I had a guy slap me once. I punched him in the face and broke up with him on the spot. Not. Cool. And the same goes for guys - I know that sounds silly, but it works both ways. Abuse is abuse. Think about this (at least this is what I do) Take every negative aspect of your partner, and multiply it by ten. This could very possibly be how they are the rest of your life. If that's not cool, move on.

Bole - Odd question. From a guy's perspective, your car is YOUR car, and you don't like sharing, right? I'm having a hard time actually believing the hubby to be likes me taking his car. We've talked about it, and he says he wants me to because it makes it easier for him, but then he gets excited when he gets to drive almost like he hasn't driven in years (I'll do the grocery shopping cause he hates to, or take him around as DD, etc. I try to be sparing because... Well... it's his car). I'm worried that I'm taking his baby and logically he knows it's okay, but "emotionally" he feels differently so he thinks it's not worth getting into a discussion about. We are buying me a car after the wedding cause we can't afford two right now. He thinks although it's his car because I pay for it, it's cool (we split the bills on everything). Is this just me being overly sensitive and looking further into a non-issue then I have to? The last thing I want is to have him longing for something that's his, and me being to blame.