Quote Originally Posted by Ghost101 View Post
Here's a little funny story.

I'm profoundly deaf, as you all know by now. I became deaf at three years old, got a cochlear implant to help me hear when i was 4. I am now 17 years old.

Throughout my entire elementary school life, I had no friends, children were shallow back then, didn't want to associate with the weird kid. Middle school was the same way.

When i got to high school, I finally got some friends. I became friends with a lot of people and close friends with a smaller smarter group, nerds as you would call them.

But the girls all remember how they didn't want to talk with me in elementary and middle school, so all of them consider me just a friend, someone to talk with intellectually, to work with in groups, etc etc.

How do I explain to my parents and siblings that I don't have a girlfriend and probably never going to have a relationship with a girl in high school? Heck, all my life I thought I wasn't handsome enough for people to like, not smart enough, too funny to be taken seriously.

That doesn't mean I'm homosexual, asexual or narcissistic. I like girls, and I like one particular girl.

So I am in the same boat as you, problem is that i want a relationship, but never know if I am handsome enough to be attractive or if I am clever enough. I am not in one simply because of how people used to act and that no one ever showed interest in me.
gohts- you are a hottie. Not only are you attractive but you are an absolute sweetheart. You also have the look that as you get older, you will become an extremely handsome man. Add that to your kickass personality and you have it made

Relationships and girls that are actually worth something will come in time. Be patient. Maybe the hearing thing is an obstacle- but its only an obstacle for shallow women who arent worth the crap under your shoe.

Good things happen for those who wait gohtsies, i <3 you and if i didnt mean what i was saying, then i wouldnt post at all. You wll find someone who not only you deserve, but deserves you dont sell yourself short it WILL happen <3