Asking to join his alliance is a good way to end it, just don't ask him, ask the leader.

Another option is to join an alliance, and Random TP to their location.

This isn't a solo game. You will not last on your own. Being alone is like begging to be attacked. You are the sick deer lagging behind the herd and wondering why the wolf wants to eat you. If you want the wolf to look elsewhere, put yourself in the center of the herd, and stop being the easy target.

Starting over on server 11 is also good advice. It just started like yesterday. Will be easy to join a good alliance and you will have a better shot at building up before people beat on you.