Quote Originally Posted by Dawnseeker View Post
Actually, I am telling you that it is a secret, for now. I'm sorry that is not acceptable to you.
seemingly it is NOT acceptable to thousands of people.
IF it is necessary for it to be a secret, put that in with the note in the "gift box"

I said it before, I'll say it again.

Communicate.

a few words will save a huge amount of unnecessary absolute stupid annoyance!