gender wars

[imnothere]

how does one rid themselves of a thought??? this is a question i have struggled to answer for the last year and a half.

[John Adams]

how does one rid themselves of a thought??? this is a question i have struggled to answer for the last year and a half.

I would say that one simply refuses to think it. Or rather, to accept that it holds nary any bareing anymore on the personages' actions. That it is in everyway shape and form, untrue, and not worth any further thoughts of merit.

Let us say, for example, that without rhyme or reason I hold the color black to be superior to all others. That, despite all the logic and the reason in the world I refuse to be anything but enraptured, completely enanamoured with said color. Supose let us decide further that eventually I grow tired of this enrapture, of this encapturement by the thought. Then, by weight of the decision alone, I can chose to allow myself to refute that thought, and thereby rid myself of it.

~John

[*jdm*]

how does one rid themselves of a thought??? this is a question i have struggled to answer for the last year and a half.

first you have to enter the first the dream level, then go deeper into the second while leaving someone to set your kicks, then enter the third level plant the counter inception then have all your kicks synchronized so you can leave the dream

[imnothere]

^^i will have to try that again.
^no one would come into my dreams with me. not even to kick me out.
thanks for the suggestions

[Boleslav]

One cannot love without hate

I assume your mother doesn't hate you. I certainly don't hate my wife or my daughter. I don't think this statement carries any water.

[John Adams]

I assume your mother doesn't hate you. I certainly don't hate my wife or my daughter. I don't think this statement carries any water.

I cannot dissuade you from your beliefs, Mister Boleslav. However, I would refute them just the same.

Because you love one object does not dissolve you from the ability to hate another. Indeed, you may indeed hate the same object -- at times-- that you profess to love at all others.

You may even be lead into hating what you once loved through adverse cirumstances. Surely most once married, now divorced personages did not marry with the intent, or even idea, they would eventually grow to hate another.

I would urge you sir, that you assertain what I seek to imply, or what views I wish to further, before selecting exerpts from my writing to remark upon.

~John

[imnothere]

I assume your mother doesn't hate you. I certainly don't hate my wife or my daughter. I don't think this statement carries any water.

i was under the assumption that he meant "opening your self to the possibility of love opens you to the possibility of grate pain which if misdirected or unresolved could lead to hate"
but i can see where one would easily read what he said and take it at face value.
but then we all know what happens when we assume things. hehe only way i remember how to spell that word is from the vary apt saying that goes with remembering how to spell it

[John Adams]

i was under the assumption that he meant "opening your self to the possibility of love opens you to the possibility of grate pain which if misdirected or unresolved could lead to hate"
but i can see where one would easily read what he said and take it at face value.
but then we all know what happens when we assume things. hehe only way i remember how to spell that word is from the vary apt saying that goes with remembering how to spell it

Your assumption is, on the whole, correct, miss.

I submited more of what I meant by that statement above.

One must love to hate. One must hate to love.

~John

[imnothere]

i still disagree with the absoluteness of your statement, but i accept it as your opinion.

[John Adams]

i still disagree with the absoluteness of your statement, but i accept it as your opinion.

That is fine.

I do not ask, nor request, compliance with my decision. I can hopefor correct assumptions as to what I said.

~John