Erm... Raster, how do define a dream as real? Or controlling a dream, how would you call it fake? If you thought you were going to fly and you started flying, there's no way to say it's coincidence or control. But as far as we know, you controlled it. It happened when you thought it would, you shaped the reality.

Someone needs to define a 'real lucid dream' or just a 'real dream' if this is going to make any sense.