I have that happen. Not the fat homeless guy part though lol, if I made an effort to hang out with people it'd be easy. But as far as having people calling me and bugging me to hang out with them all at once, and then having lulls where no one does, I get that.

Also events too, they always have to be on the same day or right near each other to make it impossible to keep up with or attend them all, then for months.. nothing.