Hmmm...treat the other individual with the utmost respect, courtesy and maintain a certain etiquette of social grace. Concern yourself with the other person's passions and interests. If the person that you like enjoys literature, write essays and poems together on the theme of ardent love.

In addition, be wary of intoxicating emotions and petty passions...strive for the love of inner beauty: of the human ideal of moderation, grace and proportion. In essence, like the individual for common goals and interests and not physical appearance solely. True beauty is in the joy instilled within you by the other person's presence...