honesty

[Khalee]

First, Khalee, er ... umm ... I know the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth, and am no messiah, just an ordinary self educated erudite.

What do I do for work? Where do I live? How old am I? How many in my family?

You don't know? Does this then mean that you DON'T, in fact, know the WHOLE truth? Rhetorical question.

Anyone who claims to know all the answers doesn't really know very much

I appear to be wiser than he, because I do not fancy I know what I do not know

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I think what you mean to express is not so much the translation of what is seen, heard, felt, yet what the interpretation of those senses, are. feel free to correct me.

Interpreters deal with spoken language and translate orally
Translators deal with written text

Along with other skills dividing the 2, translators almost always work toward their own point of view, turning another's message into their own understanding.

I stand by the choice of words, since any event I view, I translate into my own understanding, not interpret it as what it actually was.

[King Alboin]

You do what you have chosen to do for work.

You live where most of your stuff is at.

You are older than some, younger than others.

Your family should not be counted by numbers, but by the ferocity of the love you have for them.

So? tell me where I am wrong with my mirthful answers to your rhetorical queries?

Your premise, sought after by a false trial, of my claim to know, is therefore rendered moote.

Interesting you pull from the dreggs of utter fallacy, a way to shake your finger at me. No problem, I take no offense. You may not know any better, and I make allowances for those who dont know any better.

Translation and interpretation are two different animals in the same zoo, Khalee.

When I hear you say, that you translate the truth, I have to ask myself, from what language are you translating your truth from?

If english is the language from which you translate your truth from, then what language are you translating it into? Khalee'ish? Okay, then you win, you are therefore translating from one language into another. However, if you are taking a truth from english and making it your truth in english, then you are in fact interpreting the truth for your edification. nothing wrong with that.

Take this debate to any level you choose, be it Ethos, Pathos or Logos, yet one string will always remain the same ... The truth is what it is, and it is easy to know, should you not lie to yourself or get into the habit of lieing to others. I dont accuse you of lieing, however, just allowing you to know how I know what the truth is.

Honesty starts with what we tell ourselves. If we are honest with ourselves, then we have no problem being honest with others. One can know when one is lieing by spotting the error through trials. Once a falsehood has been noticed, then all words from that mouth are subject to scrutiny. Trust issues rear their ugly head, and solemn trust in that individual abates.

then how does a self taught erudite, such a me get to know the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth? [not every fact, not every answer, but what is true and what is false], I stopped lieing to myself a long time ago.

Here's a lesson from the ancient norse on what not to trust. Interpretationally translate at your easiest convienance.

Hávamál
The Words of Odin the High One
from the Elder or Poetic Edda
(Sæmund's Edda)
translated by Olive Bray
and edited by D. L. Ashliman
Maxims for All Men
83.
The speech of a maiden should no man trust
nor the words which a woman says;
for their hearts were shaped on a whirling wheel
and falsehood fixed in their breasts.
84.
Breaking bow, or flaring flame,
ravening wolf, or croaking raven,
routing swine, or rootless tree,
waxing wave, or seething cauldron,
85.
flying arrows, or falling billow,
ice of a nighttime, coiling adder,
woman's bed-talk, or broken blade,
play of bears or a prince's child,
86.
sickly calf or self-willed thrall,
witch's flattery, new-slain foe,
brother's slayer, though seen on the highway,
half burned house, or horse too swift --
be never so trust'ful as these to trust.

[Khalee]

And the funny part is that I think you really believe what you say

As such, I'll leave you to your beliefs.

[SiphonXP]

I deny everything. Lies, all lies!

[tipperary1]

im a multimillionaire who has superhuman powers of claymoddelling and whos well known for randomly bursting out in song

[Balaam]

excusing the spam bots and trolls, here's my take

the whole truth and nothing but the truth....

if i were asked this question
where were you on the evening of June 25th 1994?

i could give 3 answers:
i really don't remember
pretty sure is was dancing with a drunk chick
i was at home alone watching tele

only one is most likely not the truth
only one is most likely the truth
none are nothing but the truth
one is the whole truth


basic problem is, i really don't remember, so your guess is as good as mine
if i really think about it... it was a saturday and it was a few days after my 35th
so most likely not at home alone and most likely dancing with some drunk chick
(cuz drunk chicks dig me)<==whole truth

so i think you should only judge truth on the attempt to portray the truth to the best of your ability.. not anything else

to the trolls... please go away, i don't need or want your input thank you <==nothing but the truth
to the spam bot... your link is broken

[King Alboin]

@Khalee;

Happy to make you laff, okie dokie then, buh bye, see ya in the funny papers. =P

@Tip;

Oh man, are you the genius behind Grommit?

@Balaam;



and hey, drunk heavy honies just flock to my cause. Goto just luv the good times.

[SiphonXP]

im a multimillionaire who has superhuman powers of claymoddelling and whos well known for randomly bursting out in song

I'd have to guess Oprah on this one.

[Balaam]

im a multimillionaire who has superhuman powers of claymoddelling and whos well known for randomly bursting out in song

I'd have to guess Oprah on this one.

so... you two honestly can't help yourselves?

@Balaam;



and hey, drunk heavy honies just flock to my cause. Goto just luv the good times.

brutha, that was 1994
i has to stay away from those establishments
cuz now i has a full time mrs
mainly cuz they still dig me...even though i'm old as

[AbstractAngel]

Purposely misleading another for your own personal gain = wrong to me.
Specifically omitting information to no end other than benefiting that of the other person = being tactful.

I think trying to be as honest as possible is a best practice, but you still have to take people's feelings, beliefs, and opinions into consideration.

I may see someone across the street and be taken aback that they are wearing something even I couldn't pull off, and I am half their size. Tact would dictate I don't walk over there and just exclaim "hey fatty, wear a bra and accept you're a size 14. I'm going to go blind!"

On the flip side, a lot of times people omit something or lie because they don't want to cause tension or an issue. That to me is selfish.

Our buddy works 6 days a week, comes home, and plays dad all night. He rarely gets time to himself, and he lies to his wife about where he is when he wants to do a coffee. Mainly because he doesn't want her to freak out and get mad when he believes he deserves an hour to hang out with his friends. He doesn't ask for much, usually a coffee once every week and a half-two weeks. It's ridiculous that he doesn't just say "hey, I'm going for coffee, I'll be late tonight". If that causes a fight they need to work it out as a couple, but to lie about it? That just makes the action itself even worse. I personally see nothing wrong with him getting some "him" time, but if she does they need to be honest about it instead of it blowing up 2 years later when she finds out he's been lying to her all along.

My final point... If I ask my husband "do I look fat" in something, and my husband is honest with me? I asked, I need to suck it up and deal with the answer. That double standard is unfair and breeds lies. We say we want honest but breed dishonesty by punishing those willing to offer truth when asked.

End of rant :P