Quote Originally Posted by o0miza0o View Post
A wedding is supposed to be all about you.. so why not Pokey? It's YOUR special day, not the guests'.
My question was mostly summed up cynically as: why do you even care about a wedding?

Traditionally weddings were ceremonies in which two people were joined under religious auspices to allow them to enter into a union of sorts previously not done.

Over time this has morphed a bit, and no longer does marriage necessarily signify anything at all except what the parties make for themselves, there is no "supposed" any longer. That is to say the day before someone is married and the day after is usually identical for most couples these days. So I was curious what about a wedding day/marriage is it that is significant to you specifically?