Am I being Overzealous?

[abracax]

Well, here's the beginning of the story:

One of our members attacked a valley belonging to this chick. Chick declares war. No talking, no nothing, just war.

The resolution offered:

Our leader offered a position in our alliance, and was immediately called a bully and idiot leader.

Then we attacked.

Well then just crush the other alliance, thats what I would do if they acted that way.