A message from Milonius

[ABakker]

I'm really not able to comment on the event. I never saw what occured. And apologizing doesn't work for me . I fail at it. You know what, I fail at alot of things.

[ArgentJedi]

I know I messed up a couple days ago. I think everyone should wipe the 17th from their memory. Its was a bad day for these forums.

I don't think that is such a good idea, Abakker... that would be unfair to Lyla, and to the forum in my opinion... you can't simply wipe away the bad things just cuz you don't like them. That is life... we are forced to live with things we regret... if we didn't have to, we as individuals as well as a community, would never be worthy of having someone like Lyla involved in our lives.

While that may have sounded corny and cheesey... each and every single one of us is involved in one anothers lives through our conversations and discussions in these forums, just as much so as if we were doing it in person at a friends house. Every time you speak here, your words touch the people that read them... further "proof" if you will, of how we are involved in each others lives as a community.

Let's not forget that day... but remember what happened, and make sure that each and every single one of us makes an effort to never be apart of something like it, or let it happen again.

To Milo: While I haven't known you long, or very well at all... I really do mean this:

Regardless of what happens to your account... I think the extra effort that you made to make sure that you apologized to Lyla and the OTD forum shows a lot of character. It doesn't undo what was done, but it has definitely earned you a bit of respect from those that know you well, and from those of us that don't and perhaps judged you based on just those actions alone. You've redeemed yourself a good bit in my eyes, whether you care about that or not, and it does mean a great deal to me, to see that you've gone to the extra effort to apologize.

[ABakker]

ok lol. It was just an interesting day, thats for sure lol. And yes, it wouldn't be fair to Lyla. Again though, I don't know what exactly happened there (and I probably shouldn't know) but it was a bad day lol.

[Boleslav]

It's worth considering that Milonius and the others posted what they did because they thought that was appropriate and they thought they would get away with it. As players, what are we posting in the forums that allowed them to assume that? As moderators, what actions or inactions led them to think they would get away with it?

That thread was an inferno which none of us escaped without getting burned. I for one am absolutely horrified that two more threads have been created - a sexy guys and a sexy girls thread - which have exactly the same potential to go wrong as the photos thread.

[drizztix]

bah everyone makes mistakes

he is a lil tardling though..
but atleast he appolgized

[woody513]

Well at least he apologized...

[whiterosedreams]

His message is worth forgiving. I'd say that he's very sorry and should be welcomed back.

[Valkirah]

Do not derail this thread into personal bickering or I will start handing out suspensions like lighters at a rock concert.

Mike

[trogdor1316]

I know I messed up a couple days ago. I think everyone should wipe the 17th from their memory. Its was a bad day for these forums.

The 17th...the third wave.

[lyla]

Foxybunny please tell him that I forgive him, and alls forgotten. All the mean things that he said to me are in the past. And honestly, I'd rather not relive this all the time lol.