Then don't spend money until you know how to efficiently use it. There's a learning curve for any game with any extended playability.

In Travian, if you're getting attacked too often, it's either 1. you started really late, so restart on a newer server 2. unlucky start position 3. you don't understand the basics of the game 4. from 3, you suck at the game.

I'm guessing that this game is similar. While spawning next to a really strong player right off the bat will suck, you can always delete and start over, or find a newer server to play on.

Developers know, or should know, that long term players form player base and monetary base of a company. No one's going to stick around if you have to baby every new player there is.